Beata found a nice text by Lauren Berlant, that very nicely sums up what….

…we intend with our work. Checkt it out: "[...] people indulge in projections of what makes them uncomfortable about sex: its weirdness (I was just standing up and talking and now I’m doing this?), its sloppiness, its awkwardness, its seeming disconnection from so many other 'appropriate' drives…